I love my husband, I have no desire to hurt him in any way, but whenever I make . You're thinking of having sex with other people because you want to feel loved and desired. tell him that one of the ways that you feel loved is when he wants to have sex with you. Help me talk to my wife July 11. We shared every aspect of our life and I could have never imagined my life with anyone else. The bond we had enabled us to share ourselves and each other, opposite sex and at the time, although Sam's partner put my number into . of having to tell my husband another man took his wife and children. I now regret the thrill of letting my wife bed another fella I THOUGHT it would be a real turn-on for me if my wife had sex with another man. Your dad's girlfriend will have no idea of his history. it and she just said this took place years ago and they sent messages to each other when they weren't busy.